" Online Flirting " - a New Art Form

" Online Flirting " - a New Art Form

Online flirting is similar to the way a skilled brick layer works with brick and mortar, brick by brick to make a lasting project strong, by using his knowledge of the tools and resources he has to complete the task. The same type of thing is true to online dating when it comes to flirting. One thing needed in the art of flirting, is showing you have strong confidence, without being pushy, prideful or OTT. When a guy goes too far, she is likely to think he has no style or is on the ’slimy’ side. If you don’t go far enough, she will label you as: "wimpy". Do you want to learn how to avoid being labeled slimy or wimpy and still flirt successfully online, even without any face to face contact? You already have some of the tools needed with your computer, internet connection, membership with an online dating site and now you just need good flirting skills to bring it home.

1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. This will help make her eager to talk with you again. Flirting is playful.

2. Show confidence. Having a positive outlook on life and the future will always make your flirting more successful. You need to transmit the "feel good" factor.

Being optimistic in this way goes hand and hand with attracting girls, like bee’s and honey go together.

3. Be sincere when you compliment her and do it as often as you can, naturally, without coming across fake or forced.

Nothing opens a door like making her feel good about herself. This will make her want to spend even more time chatting with you, and if she ever returns the compliment make sure you say, ’thank you’. Do not be self depreciating.

4. Listen, listen, listen. You need to pay attention to what she is really saying, do not read in-between the lines, but politely ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Being a good listener will work wonders!

5. Never be rude to her. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you find you are getting a lot of rejections then don’t lose your confidence you just need to reconsider your approach.

6. After chatting you can also send an email. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.

Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.

Successful online dating can be summed up in the words of Ether Barrymore: "The best time to make friends is before you need them"; and, "Laughter is the shortest distance between two friends".